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Allowing your Uniqueness and Strengths to Cultivate Success w/ Myah Master

by Faster Than Normal

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Today’s guest is a Gen-Z’er who has accomplished more in her short time on this planet, than most of us have by age 40! Myah Master has used her ADHD powers to fuel her creativity and ambition to become the Administrative Director, (before age 24), of a Non-Profit 501(c)(6) that manages four other non-profits all centering around:  access, research and education on/about Mental Health. She’s published 3 books and is working on her memoir which will become a guide for any other 20-something’s navigating their quarter life crisis, wanting to get their life together and be successful. Today we learn how she’s been using her ADHD superpowers. Enjoy! 

In this episode Peter and Myah Master discuss:  

2:00 – Intro and welcome Myah!!

2:51 – How old were you and what made you seek a diagnosis in the first place?  

4:06 – On the positive side of being diagnosed so early, and never having the idea of being broken enter your thought process, but using it as a way to move forward with positivity.

4:27 – On being a fighter.

4:55 – Have you ever taken a break?

5:54 – On now knowing how to relax and take personal time

6:30 – On finding joy

7:15 – How do you hit reset?  

7:57 – On taking the great advice you give to others and applying it to your own life.

8:28 – Do you have any particular triggers, that signal you to take a break?  

9:42 – Have you ever noticed a drop-off in work productivity when not taking time to take care of yourself? Tell us about what you’ve found, avoiding ADHD impulsivity and how you avoid burnout(?)

11:09 – Balancing goals versus time spent

12:20 – On physical setbacks sometimes being a needed wake up call 

13:07 – Advice for the younger demographic, being diagnosed w/ ADHD, or being neurodiverse for the first time; what is your advice, what would you say to them?

15:14 – Thank you Myah – real fast, tell us about your books?  I started writing my memoir, which is about, you know, a guide for a 20 something overcoming their quarter-life crisis as a means of therapy to overcome my quarter-life crisis. I decided to procrastinate and publish three self-published poetry and prose books. The first on anxiety, the second addiction and the third book on affirmations. The third is the most recent that I’m most excited about. It’s essentially a short, maybe 35 minute read of poetry & prose that anyone can pick up on a hard day. They can read the words and let me do the work for you until you make it, and that’s the title …so  affirmations is to read yourself and get you through the hard times.

16:04 – How can people find you?  @ChaoticGoodest on Twitter  myah_master on INSTA and via her website:

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16:53 – Faster Than Normal Podcast info & credits


Hi guys. My name is Peter Shankman. I’m the host of Faster Than Normal.  I want to thank you for listening, and I also want to tell you that if you’ve listened to this one, you probably listened to other episodes as well of Faster Than Normal.  We are the number one ADHD podcast on the internet, and if you like us, you can sponsor an episode.  Head over to It is alot cheaper than you think. You’ll reach… God about 25….30,000 people in an episode and get your name out there, get your brand out there, your company out there, or just say, thanks for all the interviews we brought you over 230 interviews of CEOs, celebrities, musicians, all kinds of rock stars all around the world from we’ve had… God, who have we had…we’ve had Tony Robbins, Seth Goden, Keith Krach from DocuSign, we’ve had Rachel Cotton, we’ve had  the band Shinedown, right? Tons and tons of interviews, and we keep bringing in new ones every week, so head over to grab an episode, make it yours, we’d love to have you, thanks for listening.  Here’s this week’s episode, hope you enjoy it.

Hey guys, Peter, Shankman welcome to another episode of Faster Than Normal, I’m thrilled that you’re here. It is a gorgeous day here…. it is…. we’re recording this on June 16th, which happens to be our guest’s birthday, also my Mom’s birthday, so random, random birthdays today, but, um, it is lovely to have you.  Today is a Gen, I don’t know, a Gen Z, I guess, episode… today’s episode, we’re talking to a 20-something, who has done more in her few short years on the planet than most of us have done by the time we’re 40, so there’s benefit in that. We’re talking to Maya and Maya tells me that she’s used for ADHD as a power to fuel her creativity and ambition to become the Administrative Director before 24 years old of a 501-6C non-profit, that manages four other nonprofits, all centered on access,  research and education on mental health.  She’s published three books, she’s working on her memoir. I don’t know how big a memoir can be when you’re in your mid twenties, but I’m looking forward to seeing it. It’s a guide, and she’s working on a guide for any other 20- somethings navigating their quarter-life crisis… that’s a thing – uh, wanting to get their life together and be successful.  Maya, welcome and Happy Birthday. 

Thank you so much,  I’m happy to be here. 

Glad to have you. So, so…. I’m guessing you’re one of those people who, when you got diagnosed were like, well, shit, let’s just use this and do everything we possibly can. But what was it like when you first…. well, first of all, why were you diagnosed?  How old were you and what were the sort of the negatives that brought you into the Dr. in the first place? 

Yeah, so, um, I don’t have a ton of insight because I was actually very young. I was six. So the ADHD life is mostly all I’ve ever known. And I think part of that is why I have never really had this mentality that it was holding me back.  It was just always a part of me so I learned to adjust at a young age and I had, you know, I was taught different tools on how to organize and, and I had to learn that for me personally, I had to hyper-organize myself, just to  manage daily life without completely falling apart. So I instilled that from a young age and just, I mean, it was just such a part of my life that, uh, it wasn’t until adulthood when I started…people really started talking about ADHD and the struggles that came with it, that I realized that the struggles I had, weren’t actually personality traits necessarily, they were symptoms of my ADHD and I felt a lot less guilty for places I faltered, but also a lot stronger for the adversity I overcame through it.

Yeah. I mean, I think that one of the big things that happens is when people realize, um, you know, when they’re first diagnosed, when they’re a little older than you, their first thought is, um, okay, I’m broken, you know, and the brain is able to take that and turn it around. Usually it takes some time. So the fact that I guess that you were diagnosed that young, you pretty much grew up with, okay, here’s who I am, and here’s what I’m gonna do. 

Yeah. I mean, I’ve always, it’s, it’s kind of a fight or flight thing and I always was a fighter. I, I have never, um, had a moment without adversity, even beyond ADHD, so it never really occurred to me to stop going. I think part of that has just been, uh, I didn’t… I didn’t feel like I had a choice, so my entire life I’ve just been constantly running uphill and sprinting because I was afraid of what would happen if I stopped.  

Right, no, I totally get that. And, and… and have you ever, has it ever come to a point where you… where you felt comfortable enough to say, okay, I can relax, I can take a break? 

Uh, maybe one day, I don’t think I’ve ever had that moment.  I mean, you know, I think maybe other people with ADHD feel this.  You’ll hyper-focus and you’ll set a goal and you, your entire life, even momentarily revolves around this thing that you’re focusing on and chasing, and then once you accomplish it or you get to that point, there’s this one moment of…. of “cool, I crossed off the task.  I crossed off the thing on my to-do list.”  And then at least for me, I’m almost immediately like, okay, what’s the next thing. Let’s go. Let’s go. Let’s go. I don’t know how to slow down and I think that’s something that I should probably work on and, and enjoy the fruits of my labor. But I mean, so far it’s really worked for me, you know, never-ending goals….

So it’s interesting you’re mentioned that because when I sold my first company back in 2001, um, I’ve said take a year off, and I went to Asia, and bummed around for about two or three weeks and then my third weekend or,  end of my second weekend, whatever, um, I went back to Tokyo airport and flew home and I called my Mom from the airport and said I’m flying home. And she’s like, why {indistinguishable} you never taught me how to relax, and I think that was a good thing,  {indistinguishable}  okay, I’m getting really smart. But over time, I’ve really learned that I need to relax, I need to take time for me, whether that’s, whether that’s, you know, skydiving or going on a trip or doing whatever.  Even just being on a plane on my way to a business trip with eight hours of uninterrupted time on the plane is relaxing, but you gotta to do something. If you’re not taking care of yourself, you’re gonna, you’re gonna drop. You’re not gonna be able to do as well. 

Definitely.  I, I don’t have big…. I think there’s always these goals in my back of my mind, but I do at least probably in the last year, that’s something I’ve been working on and actually finding things that bring me joy, and I think that’s part of my writing, which then turned into more of an ambitious goal, but, uh, my writing is my therapy. It’s my place away from the world where I can put the jumbled mess of thoughts in my brain on paper. And that was a huge coping tool that I learned with ADHD from a young age. And I’ve been writing as long as I can remember, because it was the only thing that calmed the choas,with organizing my thoughts, whether personal or professional or whatever it be, and so one thing I do is I’ll run off into the woods literally and, uh, take a journal and I turn off my phone and I, I just go out as far away as I can from society and write, and, um, that’s one thing that just that I think allows me to take a step back from… the goal-chasing.

That makes sense. And are you, do you find yourself sort of rebirthed with that or, you know, reset I mean for me, my skydiving is my reset. 

Yes, it’s, it’s an, uh, being out in nature and just going back to my most authentic self, just me and myself and a pen and paper is an automatic reset for me, and, um, it definitely works and I should probably do it more often these days.  

It’s, it’s hard to, to, um, sort of what you teach other people is hard to teach yourself on occasion. I mean, it’s, it’s the monkey see me, you know, do, as I say, not as I do, but I’ve been in that same situation.  

I’m great at giving advice, not great at following it. Then I started realizing that your words have more weight when you lead by example.  So I’ve been trying really hard to do that with self-care and work-life balance and setting more boundaries, even with myself against myself. 

What do you find, um, do you have any triggers that sort of say, okay, you know what?  I need a break.

I think when the stress gets to the point, when my, when my stress turns physical, I’m used to mental anxiety and kind of all that that encompasses, but once I reach a certain level of stress, where it’s physically manifesting and, you know, jaw popping, and my, you know, I have fibromyalgia, so with chronic pain, the worse my stress gets, the worse my body hurts, and I think it’s rare for me to not go, go, go. It’s so instinctual that the moment I feel myself unable to like… have that fire in me, I realize that I’ve very literally burned out. And so right now I’ve been practicing, um, being more mindful before I actually reach the point of burnout, because in the past, the only time I ever stopped to relax, is when I absolutely have to, when I can’t possibly move another step and I have to go reset. And so I’m trying to keep myself from doing that because the highs and lows are just not manageable and, and aren’t necessary. If you can be self-aware enough to just take a step back before it goes too far. 

That makes sense.  What about, um, you know, have you, have you noticed, has there ever been a point where your work has sort of tried to drop off or you’re seeing it, you know, a, a, a, a lesser effect in your talents because you’re not taking care of yourselves. I know that’s a big deal for a lot of our…. a lot of our listeners.

Oh, yeah, oh yeah, and it’s part of that burnout because I’ll, I’ll go see it. It’s kind of like a it’s part of the highs and the lows. I’ll go so hard that I burn out and then there’s a day or two or three even where I’m at half speed, and then I feel anxious because, uh, and guilty because now I’m moving much slower than I normally do, and I’m not even at regular power, but the week before I was at 150 – 200%, and so then it’s this ebb and flow and then I’ll kind of recharge. And then I go even harder to make up for the time I’ve lost and it’s… it’s definitely a balancing act that is a constant, daily, mindfulness practice I think, of learning your limits and I’m the type that works that, you know, 10, 12 hour days.  And sometimes that brings me a lot of joy, but then in the aftermath of burnout, it’s kind of, I’ve been telling myself every day, make a decision today that your future self will thank you for, stop with the instant gratification with impulsivity, like ADHD. Impulsivity is huge, and I struggle with that a lot.  And so I’m like, I need to start making decisions that my future self is gonna thank me for 

No, that’s a great line. That’s, it’s very true. I think alot of it, you know, a lot of times, especially in this world we live in, where everything’s so go and go, and internet-connected and everything like that, it is very easy. It’s much easier to think about, okay, what’s going to give me the most joy in the next five minutes, versus what’s that….in the next like five years.

Exactly. I’ve, I’ve always had like a 1-3-5-year plan, but I get, you know, and part of it is why I’ve reached the success that I have now, because I’m so impatient. I’m like, I mean, yeah, it’s realistic to make, let’s say VP or an executive role five years from now, just like last year, five years from now, that’s a, that’s a reasonable and still very ambitious goal.  Then I said, nah, I don’t want to wait, so, I just, I fought and I fought, I fought and. I, I got myself so stressed out last year that I got a strep throat three times in three months, had  to get a tonsillectomy, which forced me to sit on my back for two weeks sick and recovering. And that was one of the first times I realized, which was that physical manifestation of this is what happens when you go too hard.  And now you’ve, you’ve set yourself back much farther than if you’d just taken two days off in the beginning. 

I think even, even, it’s crazy how many people have realized that the moment they realized they needed to chill is that moment when they’re like, okay, um, I have no choice. I have to sit on my back.  I’m I’m, I’m injured or I’m whatever, you know, and that’s sort of their wake up call in that regard.  

It was I’m… I’m a very big believer in everything happens for a reason. And, you know, hindsight is 2020, and sometimes it’s very difficult to see why things, why obstacles get put in your place. But I started realizing that more often than not the obstacles put in my place are gifts, and even though I don’t always see it, it later on down the road, I realized that that slow down was so important for my health. And it’s such a wake up call, like you said, to realizing that what would happen if I didn’t take care of myself, 

What do you say to someone a little younger than you? Because a lot of our guests are older and, and you know, you have a voice now and you have a platform right now with, Faster Than Normal… to tell kids who are maybe 9, 10, 11, getting diagnosed for the first time, different than slash/broken.  Here’s your, here’s your chance? What are you saying? 

I would say that life is all about perspective and, you know, we create the world that we cultivate. So if you were only looking at the bad or even just looking at your circumstances in a bad way, it will always feel bad and you’ll never feel encouraged to move forward.  If you can take the things that make you feel broken, and make them see, make you see them as uniqueness as something that sets you apart, and yeah, you’re different, but all the greatest minds were not the typical people you’d meet in society and that your brain fires differently, works differently, and if you look at it as being broken, that’s all you’re ever going to see. But if you’ll take these things and you self examine, and you go through the practice of mindfulness and just testing out your own strengths, you’ll start realizing that those things are strengths, and what sets you apart is uniqueness can cultivate success when you set yourself apart from everyone else. So I learned, uh, I learned early on, that if I just allow myself to be beat down, I would only ever be beat down. The only option you have is fight or flight. I wanted so much for my life that I just chose to look at things differently. And it’s an everyday struggle to make sure that you see things in a positive way, but if you affirm yourself and, and you take that gift of hyper-focus and you learn to guide your hyper-focus on positivity, then you will be the most positive person in the room. You’ll be that person that feverously chases happiness and true, genuine joy, and that hyper-focus that you have on the good. outweighs what a non ADHD brain would. 

That is awesome, what a great answer, I love that!  Uh, real fast, tell us about your books.  

Uh, okay. So, uh, ADHD, I started writing my memoir, which is about, you know, a guide for a 20 something, um, overcoming their quarter-life crisis as a means of therapy to overcome my quarter-life crisis, and, um, I decided to procrastinate and publish three self published, three poetry and prose books. The first on anxiety, uh, the second addiction and the third book of affirmations. And the third is the most recent that I’m most excited about. It’s essentially, uh, a short, maybe 35 minute read of poetry and prose that anyone can pick up on a hard day, that they can read the words and let me do the work for you until you make it, and that’s the title …. so  affirmations is to read yourself and get you through the hard times.

I love it, Myah, how can people find you?

Uh, you can find me on Twitter, um, you can find me on Instagram at, and at my website, 

Very cool, Myah Master, thank you so much for taking the time, we  greatly appreciate it and we’re glad that you’re part of our lives here. Um, we’ll definitely have you back. 

Thank you so much. I hope you have a great day. 

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